Tag Archives: aot events

You Can Always Get It Cheaper

After several very busy months, I have been inspired by a very insightful blog post…

When I first started out in this industry, I struggled with pricing (as many of us do) and how to educate brides on price vs. value.

If you too have had this struggle or are currently challenged by this ever prominent topic, please click here. 

Thank you Sasha for your valuable insight!

Keep it Sexy,



Palette, Paper, Linen and MORE…

It’s hard to believe that the Special Event Planning course that I instruct at Wake Tech will soon be coming to an end!

I have had the pleasure of meeting and conversing with many fabulous people over the past two months, some of which will go on to have amazing careers in the events industry.

I am fortunate to have great relationships in this industry and two of my favs have honored me with their presence in this semester’s class.  The wonderful Bridget DuPre of Connie Duglin Linen and Stacey Motley of The Paper Cafe.

Bridget wowed the class with her knowledge of linens and

the vast selection available to add that needed effect to any special occasion.

She did an awesome job!

Stacey is so passionate about what she does, who knew there was so much to be said about paper! Many people are not aware that there are more options available than what they see everyday.  The value of a professional is unmatched!  If you’re not sure if that professional touch is in your budget, ASK STACEY!


Thank you ladies for giving us a glimpse into your world!


Not All Tires are Created Equal!

I recently experienced the joy of buying new tires for my car.  The choices were laid before me and as a novice “tire purchaser” I had no clue what the real difference was aside from price.  So with an uneducated guess, I chose the least expensive tire.

My rationale being, “they are tires, shouldn’t they all work the same”?

Well, it didn’t take long to find out why the “other” tires were more expensive.

This experience led me to understand the position that some clients may find themselves in.

NOT ALL PLANNERS ARE CREATED EQUAL!  The initial ride may be smooth and efficient but the true test comes when you hit the first bump or have to navigate through the construction and detours on the road of event planning.

Unless clients are educated, they too will make the mistake of thinking that all things being equal… price is the only differentiation.

Things are not equal and planners do not offer the same skill, education, expertise or connections. 

Clients need to do their research and stop ruling planners out based on fee alone… yes, you certainly get what you pay for but with the wrong person, you may get some things that you didn’t pay for and never expected.

Just as higher priced tires can = better quality, a smoother ride and the appearance of less bumps along the way,

Higher priced planners can = better connections, customer focused service and the appearance of less bumps along the way!

Does more $ always = better service? 

No, but compare tires before getting on the highway!

It Takes a Village…

Successful events don’t just happen! 

They aren’t magically delivered in the 30 minutes it takes to watch a wedding reality show.   There is no one man (or woman) who can plan, cook, serve, dj and photograph an event.

We need each other. 

It takes a whole village to execute an amazing event.

Okay, maybe not a whole village but it does take a number of PROFESSIONALS.  We cannot do it alone and the sooner everyone involved figures that out, the better the experience for the client.  That’s who we’re here for anyway, right?

I know the hard work that goes into an event.  I also know that many vendors prefer to work directly with a professional planner; it makes their job easier. 

Well vendors, we need your help!  

We are doing our part to enlighten the world but it would help if you (please) educate your clients about the importance of hiring a professional wedding/event planner.  Help us, help you (and your clients)!

I wish I could change the minds of everyone who felt that they couldn’t afford a wedding planner.  It’s so sad to see people (brides) stress about something that comes so natural to me.  Sadly, many still see wedding planners as a luxury and not a necessity. 

We are both!

It is luxurious to have someone you trust handle all the details of the most intricate day of your life and 



Keep it Sexy!

Triangle Ladies Power Lunch

AOT Events Table Display at Ladies Power Lunch

I had the pleasure of not only attending the Ladies Power Lunch held at the beautiful Prestonwood Country Club, I was also a vendor. 


   The Ladies Power Lunch is dedicated to showcasing successful women in the Triangle.  Carrie Peele, president of Blue Diamond Limousine and founder of the Triangle Ladies Power Lunch, was inspired by one of her friends who had a successful luncheon under way in Sterling.  Carrie wanted to bring the concept of the luncheon to the women of the Triangle.  She did her research and decided that the women leaders of our area needed this luncheon. 


There was an hour of shopping and networking prior to the luncheon and the attendees were all smiles.  We were even regaled with a pre-luncheon magic show!  During each luncheon there are wonderful door prizes and the founder honors a “breast cancer hero” every month.  You receive so much more than food when you attend the Triangle Ladies Power Lunch!

What a wonderful experience had by all and I encourage you to click here  for more information and to register for the next event!

Keep it Sexy! 

Visit The Oaks at Salem

Whether you are a bride, a business owner or someone who loves the beauty of nature… you need to visit

The Oaks at Salem

The Oaks at Salem has everything the elegant bride is looking for.  As the premiere venue for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, and other Triangle functions, the property provides numerous options for outdoor and indoor entertaining. 

Combining centuries-old charm with the best of modern conveniences, the setting is designed to capitalize on the views from every vantage point.  The surrounding trees provide the perfect backdrop for engagement photos.  The unimposing ducks quietly reside in the serene, neighboring pond.

The owner of The Oaks, April Maness, is as easy-going as the breeze that welcomed me upon arrival.  She spoke with enthusiasm and a true love for this new venture.  For those of you lucky enough to have your momentous occasion at The Oaks, I am sure that you will be satisfied with April’s level of customer service.

I am certainly looking forward to coordinating many events within The Oaks at Salem.

The Oaks is conveniently located only fifteen miles from downtown Raleigh, two miles from historic downtown Apex, and less than one mile from Highway 64. Explore the ambiance of The Oaks at Salem, and create memories you’ll cherish for a lifetime. 

When you meet April, tell her Makia said “hello”.

Keep it Sexy!

Cake Pics I Adore

Just a few pictures of some beautiful cakes that I found around the web!

Isn’t this the cutest… especially with the matching napkins!


Dr. Seuss… enough said!

Upside down is always FUNKY!



and my very favorite by the talented artists at Swank Cake Design

Isn’t this absolutely STUNNING?

(and I happen to know that they taste as good as they look)

Keep It Sexy!